StanRaw
StanRaw

How Many Pups Can I Have?
When I started the blog I wanted a name for him and "Pupcake" popped into my head. It seemed to fit him perfectly! And, of course, I thought I was brilliant for thinking of it.
I didn't think of it! My dear friend, Teri, called her darling husband Pupcake and while I had not forgotten about them, I had certainly forgotten that she had penned that original nickname. I'm telling you! I bet over HALF of what I say and think has been plagiarized! I'm a word-thief!
I know; we all are to some extent. We take things we've heard, read, seen, and shake some of our personal sea salt on them and put it on the table. "Nummy Deborah! You are the best!" Deep inside I'm a thief.
Creative thinking my hooches!
In a not too distant past life I'm a graphic designer. Ideas never came over easily to me. If I had to come up with something right out of my ass I'd have to hunker down with stuff I had collected (inspiration folder I always called it - I'm so clever!) and shut my office door and start brainstorming - and alone when I was working my corporate job.
A few hours later, hopefully, I'd have a few ideas to present to my manager and we'd cull it down to the one that would work. Then I'd get designing. It was always painful. The thinking of it, not the execution of it.
On other fronts in my life I have no problem with inspiration. Decorating is painless. Clothes styling is instant. Vignetting is a see-in-my-head process. Even writing is like pooping. It just happens.
But graphic design; painful.
I was waaaaay better at the building of the project. I ROCK at that part. I was way better at the collaborative projects than the alone-with-my-thoughts projects. I had a job where we were a huge team of art directors, writers, project managers, photographers, and production artists. Awesome process. When I worked alone; hard to jump start.
Back to Pupcake. He is now, happily I might add, Pup to me on this blog. And how many Pups do I need to make a blog?

FALL 2011 TREND: LEATHER

Since Loafers seem to be the new "it" shoe I will be getting my self a few pairs for a chic spring/summer look...

FALL 2011 TREND: NUDE
I don't know if you noticed that powder pink/beiege color is an indispensable part of most designer collections. If you are going for a sophisticated look and want to look effortlessly chic then this is the perfect color for you…
It doesn't draw attention away from a woman's beauty and it allows a woman to wear her dress instead of the dress wearing her. In combination with gold, black or even red the day look can easily be turned into an night outfit.
"There is nothing on a woman more beautiful than having them wear their essence or skin tone." Celebrity stylist David Zyla
....hugs and kisses by Mani.
Ne znam jeste li primijetili da je beiege boja postala neizostavan dio dizajnerskih kolekcija. Ako želite postići sofisticiran izgled i želite izgledati spontano chic onda je ovo prava boja za vas. Ne odvlači pažnju od ženine ljepote i dozvoljava ženi da nosi haljinu, a ne haljina nju. U kombinaciji sa zlatnom, crnom ili čak crvenom bojom dnevni outfit lako može postati noćni.

Hot Men Friday
A week or so ago I stumbled on the movie Women in Love. Somehow I had never seen this movie. And somehow I had forgotten all about Oliver Reed. And Alan Bates. Does anyone remember seeing An Unmarried Woman? I totally went swoony over Alan Bates. In fact, my wasband (first husband) looked very much like Alan Bates.
But back to Women in Love. I haven't read the book but I will have to now. While watching the movie, at times I would totally forget it was filmed in 1969. Then moments later it would be glaringly obvious it was filmed in 1969. There was so much crazy flavor going into films at that time.
Worth a watch. I tossed it from my TiVo and now I'm wishing I hadn't. The two men are so beautiful and there is an attraction between them that is partly physical, but mostly spiritual/intellectual. Soul mates. There is a scene where the two male leads wrestle while naked and you can feel the attraction between them. Not surprising I guess since Bates was bi-sexual. I don't know about Reed.
Two beautiful men. So dark and broody. Both with hair you just want to fondle. And great lips.






















